Posts Tagged ‘Self Control’

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True goodness isn’t about being harmless – it’s about having the strength to cause harm, yet
choosing restraint. Harmlessness is weakness disguised as virtue; real morality is
forged in power, tempered by discipline, and proven through courage.

X>(1a): The Power of Controlled Strength

Jordan Peterson’s insight, “A harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very, very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control,” exposes a hard truth: harmlessness is not virtue, it’s weakness. Many confuse “being nice” with being good, but niceness often comes from fear, fear of confrontation, fear of offending, fear of standing firm. True goodness is only meaningful when it is chosen from a position of strength, not when it’s the only option because you’re too weak to do otherwise.

 

A person who cannot fight, who cannot say “no,” or who avoids every conflict, is not moral, they’re defenseless. This false virtue collapses the moment it’s tested, because it has no spine. Real morality requires the ability to act with force when necessary, and the wisdom to restrain that force until it is justified. Strength without control is recklessness, but control without strength is meaningless. A person who is capable of great harm, yet chooses not to inflict it, is far more trustworthy than one who couldn’t harm anyone even if they tried.

Being “too virtuous” in the passive sense is an open invitation for others to exploit you. Controlled strength commands respect; harmlessness invites predation. The good man, or woman, is not the one who avoids all battles, but the one who enters them with discipline, courage, and a clear sense of justice. Goodness without strength is fragile. Strength under control is power, and power used rightly is what makes someone truly good.

 
 

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